We get it that men like sex even when its bad, its still sex but we would also rather have bomb-ass sex too. Sex that really blows our mind.
These are some of the points that ladies need to pick and be better at. Some of them might apply to you while you might not do any of them in which case, allow me to say congratulations!
To be very honest, men are supremely guilty of some of these but hey! We are here to help each other get better. Here are the list of thing men absolutely loathe that women do during sex.
1. She doesn’t know what to do with it
Sincerely, this might be a genuine concern for the lady but I’ll also have you know that it happens with me. Some guys don’t know what to do with a pussy when they see one, the pussy is an internal organ, might require some kind of expertise but for a woman, it should be fairly easy.
Ladies, try to learn how to work the dick, avoid teeth as much as possible during blowjob, educate yourself in the act of pleasuring a man, this also goes for guys as well. Take it easy on the boobs, you’re not milking a cow.
2. She doesn’t want to get involved
This is a cause of bother for a lot of women, its what is being called being a log of wood here, she just stays there and allows the guy do all the work. It’s like here is my body, it’s a gift to you while you do whatever you want with it. We want your participation too.
3. The moan is excessive
Yea, we can tell when the moan is over the top, we know you’re enjoying the sex but does the noise have to be that loud? Guys can tell when your soundtrack doesn’t match their input, so please tone it down. We know porn stars are faking it to make the movie good.
4. She doesn’t want to try new things
This can making the bedroom boring, the idea of keeping the bedroom alive is to experiment as much as possible. Move away from missionary and ride or heck even let him hit from the back, make it more alive. If you do this, we will be eating out of the palm of your hands.
5. Over controlling lady
We love it when you introduce a little BDSM into the bedroom but take it easy. Okay, we love you already, don’t try to dictator here. We appreciate your guidance during the sex but not make yourself into a demigod when doing it. Don’t undermine him while you talk to him.
6. She doesn’t initiate it
We know we love sex but also you love it as much as we do, so don’t make us the weirdo. You can initiate it first sometimes, how about initiating the blow job first, unbuckle his belt and make him feel good.
7. Lack of Confidence
Being with a lady who has no confidence and cannot turn one on is absolutely demoralising. Timid doesn’t work well for sex, its not fun when you cannot touch her boobs and you know guys love boobs or even worse, she wants to keep her shirt throughout the damn thing. Confidence can definitely make the sex way more interesting than being timid.
8. All her attention is on the dick alone
We get it, you’re intrigued by it, either the sheer size or the beautifulness of the tool. Sexually, we’re more than our dick, there are the balls, the nipples and earlobes. Give them attention too.
9. Faking orgasm
One of the biggest problem during sex. It might be a noble gesture to fake orgasm due to issues that might not pertain to him, or even issues that are solely his. Faking orgasm just says he’s doing good meanwhile he isn’t even remotely doing good.
10. Grab it, don’t be shy
It’s not okay to treat the dick like its made of glass, sometimes use it like you’re in total control. Get a little rough at times.